So we read the description and heeded the warnings about size but ordered it anyway. Something this big could've definitely done with being a bit softer (it's very solid) and my wife's eyes nearly popped out of her head when she 1st saw and felt it but fortunately after a bit of prep she took it in one smooth motion and her eyes truly popped out of her head for a good reason. Not for the faint hearted or beginners but for size Queens this really does the job, just be prepared to put time and effort into 'warming up' 1st. My wife is 5'6 and size 8 but got half the length of this in her and had a screaming orgasm so if you really are up for something seriously big then this bad boy will rock your world.